My Husband has a taxi
company he uses for work from time to time he has the same drivers. And trust
me, what stories they come with. In my past I had a taxi driver for a few years
when I was studying and his story was quite something let alone my Husbands
drivers.
I travelled with let’s call him Tom, for three years. He was
a tall man, smelt good and didn’t have the stereotypical physique as one may
imagine taxi drivers should have!
As I got to know his life story, it intrigued me. He was
married had been for seven years when I started travelling with him. So, ten
when we parted company!
His wife found out Tom was gay, after a year of marriage
when she was five months pregnant with their first child. Yes, I said first, as
they went on to have another two children, so three in total.
She obviously stuck by him, at first she was convinced he
would “Get over it”” but by this point, he wasn’t going to change.
He was a grown man who was attracted to men, but because of
society, felt obligated to marry and for his family i.e. parents and Grandparents, he did just that complied with what
they expected of him. He believed he could live like that. But he couldn’t.
The relationship had huge problems he was accused of having affairs
with another woman and accused of not loving his wife. He loved her very much,
but not in a way a Husband should love his wife. Long story short, the couple
decided to live the lie to others and as I said, had three children. He was
allowed to visit boyfriends and ended up after nine years of marriage, falling in
love with a guy from a local restaurant he frequented. Toms wife could cope
just, with the fact Tom was visiting other men, but not the situation that he now
had got involved with. A serious relationship.
Who knows what happened I would hope that he moved out with
his new love, and continued being a great Dad and his wife found true love in
the end. But the stories on the way to college were interesting to hear how
some people live totally different lives not only to me but to each other for
sure their families. Just shows we don’t know really what goes on in peoples
minds/lives.
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