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Monday, 22 January 2018

MONDAY MOTIVATION BY FIONA CUMMINGS


 Good morning Bloggets. Gosh it’s slippy outside. At 8 am this morning, I was out and almost slipped. It’s so scary I just feel for those who have to catch a bus to work or walk to work when it’s like this. How on earth do you do it if you can’t see? You don’t know where you are putting your foot so it’s not as if you can avoid the ice. My walk was short. To the post box and back. It was the post box nearby so I was OK if I had to go to the one almost a mile away, it would have been bad. I remember asking a Mobility instructor to show me the one close by and she wouldn’t… I understand her reasons why, but she didn’t understand my reasons why.

 

She was an instructor from another area not my normal lovely lady Jane, as Jane for sure would have understood, she was brought in from another area… I think our Guide Dog branch had staff off either ill or holiday. Anyway, the reasons why the instructor wouldn’t show me how to get to this box, was because it’s so close to home. She wanted me to give my dog a long walk. And to be honest, I do still even now I know how to get to the box here, thanks to my Son showing me once… where as an instructor would show me until I am totally confident. And if she’d shown me, I may not have had a split face last year. I bled all the way home and before I got home, I was so dizzy with stress of finding the box, I ended up getting lost, or disoriented. Long story why and it’s boring but it’s one of those days I really didn’t like. One of those days that makes me remember each time I leave the house, to be anxious.

 

The reason I wanted to learn the way to the post box is on days like this when I need to post a letter and because though early it was sunny and not really that cold. But still sadly it was very icy but I didn’t realise this until it was too late because most places are fine, like my drive and the path out of our street, I thought it was a fine day.  For days when it’s raining hard or, so windy it makes it really difficult to hear where I am. And, if that lady wanted to post a letter, she would walk to the nearest one, wouldn’t she? In fact, she probably would drive to it!

 

I fed my birds today though there are few. I feel so sad for them as it’s been so cold for days now. but it’s due to get warmer. Still though the poor birds.  I have my bird table obviously in the same place in my garden and I know exactly where it is and when I think of the length of my garden it’s amazing how I just manage to find it first time every time. I changed the water today as they need fresh water not frozen as they like to keep their feathers fluffy to help with flying. I still can’t imagine how those little creatures survive in the kinds of temperatures we have been having of late.

 

It’s 10 am now my Son is still in bed though my decorator has been here since 9 am. He was exactly on time. Right now, he is rubbing down the gloss work. Gosh his arms will be killing him. I want to make him a cup of tea but I don’t want to disturb him either. I shall give him another half of an hour then offer a cupper.

 

The colour that is written on the paint tin for the walls is called white almond. My Son said it’s far from white or even cream but much darker than cream. I hope it will be when it’s on my walls as seriously, it’s such a big job this. Five full days. And things everywhere even though it’s not a room. I wrote of all the ornaments we had on the landing windowsill and the slim drawers we had to move as well as the floor standing candlesticks and the small children’s wooden and cane chair my Son has had since a tiny child. Then there are the five pictures, clock and mirror that I had to move, well, find a safe space for.

 

Our stairs have not been painted in almost six years and there is so much gloss work. Nine doors and surroundings as well as the skirting boards and loads of wood on the banister then the windowsill.  That’s just gloss before the ceiling and walls.

 

I hope it will be a nice colour I have picked for the walls. To all you paint and other colour manufacturers who are reading my blog, haha, as I’m sure there are at least seven of you out there, please can you consider people who are blind when you pick your ridiculous names for your paint/sofa’s and so on? In England the names on the paints now are stupid. Nothing close to what colours they should be. Their more like lady’s exotic names or some futuristic language that will be impossible to translate unless you understand Mumbo-jumbo.

 

Oh, my goodness… I thought it was my Son coming into my living room and I have just said in an over enthusiastic voice.

“Hello Darling.””

It wasn’t my Son… hahahhahah. He replied, my painter that is. Hello Darling, I went red and said oh, you are not the Darling I thought you were and he laughed and replied.

“I am, a darling.”” Hahaha. Bless him.

 

My Son is off to work soon. My dog is in her bed. She was such a good girl today. She walked with extra care to the post box and back. She got me to the box putting her head near it to get her biscuit and then back home. She wasn’t too happy about coming home as she would be out working all day if she could… I was glad to get back as really, I am so scared of falling these days. My knees are in agony after the last time I fell on the road about two years ago. I was with my friend my Waggatail worked really well getting to where we needed to be but on the way home because there was so much traffic and she hates noise, she didn’t work well at all. I took my friends arm she saw a gap in the traffic I continued walking forward as she didn’t let me know what was on her mind to quickly take the opportunity to turn right in a hurry, and go down the huge step. Well, that was it, my ankle bent and I went flying down the step onto the road. Cars whizzing by me around me. My dog loose on the road and my friend got flung across the road too by me as I fell. When I fall I fall? Thank God, my dog came to me and I jumped up getting her to the kerb to safety. Oh, I still have nightmares about that day and I bled all the way home. Thankfully my friend was OK too no blood but I took half of the road inside my knee. I should have gone to hospital as goodness knows what I did to my knees that day but since then I have been in agony.

 

It was a shame as that day my friend was so kind she went around the furniture shop with me and really helped me to pick some lovely things like a desk and so on for our office. But a disastrous ending for sure.

 

 OK, I shall go for now and write to a couple of my Bloggets who have emailed me. But before I go, take a moment to reflect on your week ahead. For me I must try to keep going on the treadmill and not eat before bed. But try to eat as well as I can the rest of the time. Try with a capital T and reflect on the fact I have achieved two days of the mill and eaten proper food for more than two days, probably five days now.

 

Some quotes from me


“We are all walking a bumpy path so watch out for others not to trip up and hopefully they will watch out for you too, along the way. We will all get there in the end especially if we help each other.”

 

© Fiona Cummings

 

 

 

 

 

 

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