Good day Bloggets. I have just got in from being out with my
lovely friend Geordie.
We talked so much. There is no time to breathe. We only see
each other every six to eight weeks so we have a load of catching up to do. Her
life is so different to mine but in some ways, we have a past and future in common.
As for now, we follow different paths but meet up at the same park, sit on the
same bench and watch the world go by.
We went to a coffee shop. Honestly, gone the days when a cup
of coffee and sandwich was £7. For two. Haha. My friend had soup and a
sandwich. I had a sandwich and we bought some cakes and coffee. We sat in the
garden though it was cool, it was nice to breathe fresh air.
It’s in a beautiful village one day I wouldn’t mind having a
house there. Hub would move tomorrow but with his job it wouldn’t be possible
as it’s miles away from anything. But it’s a village that is different as its
packed with all kinds of shops. In fact, so many eateries. Too many. Most of
them are empty but where we go you are lucky to get a seat. That shows just how lovely it is.
On my return I was met by my neighbour and a bin. I have
ordered a new kitchen bin and it came when I was out. I know how to enjoy life.
() seriously, I am not sure how many bins I go through. All of them the lids
break. Such a shame as the bins themselves are fine.
Hub is working away right now, so he left to go to his train
well before seven this morning. He caught three trains to where he needs to go.
It should have been two, but sadly someone decided to end their life today and
it was in front of the train where Hub and the Little Fella was travelling on!
In the end a three-hour journey took four. But he got there
safely and thank God for that.
It makes the days long though when he is away, though I have
an easy cook night as only have to think about Boy Wonder. I’m just going to
have a salad as I ate for lunch something I never do. I always have only one
meal per day.
Did I tell you I have been buying nuts of late? Oh, my, I love
them especially the new ones with that coating on. You can get them in all
kinds of flavours. I have thought they are healthier than potato crisps and
bread. Well I have put weight on. So much and the only thing I can think about
is the nuts I have been eating. So, they are off the shopping list. Because I don’t
eat meat, I thought that was one way of getting my Vitamin K.
Boy Wonder enjoying his first day off in ten days. He has
only seven days before his new job starts. I’m anxious for him, I just hope he
will be happy there.
Oh, The Little Fella has taken a liken to shuttlecocks. Yes,
one of our neighbour’s children are playing badminton and they are coming over
the fence. They are so dangerous. Thankfully our Son has been finding them on
the floor and thankfully LF hasn’t swallowed them. Otherwise he could die. They
are awful I wish they would bring out an alternative.
What has this week got in store for you? For me lots of work
on my lap top is required and I have to join together two organisations. This is
proving to be a horrid job but with good endings I hope.
In our news today. From today learner drivers are allowed on
our motorways. That always baffled me. My Son when he was 17 went on his
driving lessons and passed his test. So, he could now drive including our very
fast motorways an yet had never driven on one in his life. So, our kids could
pass their driving licence and get a car, drive wherever including motorways
but had never had a lesson or driven behind the wheel on one before. Well from
now, it’s legal that they can learn on motorways. I just hope this won’t cause
more crashes. But I also hope in the future, it will prevent accidents because
they will have the relevant experience of driving on there!
And finally, to end on what I hope will be an interesting
subject for you.
“What is the most destructive emotion?””
Just something to think about! Jealousy? Abusive, controlling,
greedy, critical, grief, hatred, defeated, anxious, ignorant, arrogant, impatient,
dependent, ashamed, impoverished, belligerent, depressed, impulsive, bitter,
insecure and the list could go on. There are so many emotions. If you could
only pick one that you personally felt was the worst either you felt it or you
knew of someone who was like this, which word would you choose?
It’s difficult to pick one isn’t it?
I suppose it depends on how you think of this question. If one
of the above emotions are of someone you live with or is close to you, or, are
one of these words your own personal emotion you find destructive?
I could personally tick a couple of these words how I feel I
am, what I am. I would rather feel my own destructive emotion than one from
another. I don’t like others when they are aggressive for example. And I wouldn’t
know how to be aggressive. Angry yes, even fiery, but not aggressive. I know of
some people who are very aggressive just by the words they write. But I read
them and can walk away from their words as to me, it just shows that they lack
in intelligence and don’t know of any other way to express themselves. I almost
have pity for those people in particularly one person I know of. As I know they
are not very clever and this is the only way they can express themselves. They
also have a lot of anger in themselves and have had to go as far as to run away
from the life they know to hide their shame. And this is sad. So, when I read
their words, I don’t get angry, I just feel sorry for them and I feel free of
them I can walk away from their anger and that is a great emotion, a positive
emotion.
So out of negative from others, can come positive emotions
for me.
I hope for you from now for at least today, all of your
emotions are positive ones. If you have
any negative ones, perhaps you will take time out to think of what they are and
you could address them? May be if you are more aware of them, then you would
have more control of them! There you go, control, could be a positive emotion.
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