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Thursday 30 November 2017

MY CHRISTMAS DIARY (THE GINGERBREAD MAN) BY FIONA CUMMINGS


A pleasant day has been had. I’m warm and safe. My dogs have been out with the kids for a walk along the riverside. They came back black. Well, Wagga even more black than what she is always. but They went in the river. Well, they would, if they didn’t have a leader on?  Boy Wonder and Sham cleaned them but I will have to go back out and give them another clean now they are drier. I put thick towels in their beds and I shall brush them spray them with doggy cologne and wash their towels later! They are shattered.

 

Kids are now out for dinner at a local pub. They have had a lovely day. As have our dogs.

 

I have finished all of my Christmas shopping; can you believe it? I can’t. All bought on line… How many more Christmas’s will I have in the dark? Will there be a Christmas one day when I can see to shop live? In the meanwhile, we do well. As best as we can anyway. We bought Hubs Dads gift last month. We got him a nice warm fleece from a good shop on line and a bottle of whisky. We may see him before or just after Christmas but if we don’t he has his present.

 

 I always spare a thought for those who have no one. Or those who do the same thing every year and for whatever reason this year, that can’t happen.

 

One day it will just be me and Hub for Christmas dinner, unless our Son always comes here but I’m sure there will be one day when he decides he will go to his future wife’s parents house, or, just stay at home with his kids. In a perfect world he will always come or be home for Christmas day.

 

Yesterday we spoke about Christmas cake. It got me wondering where does the cake originate from? This is what I read today in brief.

Christmas cake is an English tradition that began as plum porridge. People ate the porridge on Christmas Eve, using it to line their stomachs after a day of fasting.  Then they started to add honey, spices and dried fruit to the porridge and then it became over time, Christmas pudding. In the 16th century, the oatmeal was removed and wheat, flour eggs and butter were put in the mixture and it became a boiled plum cake.

 

Wealthy families who had ovens began to make fruit cakes and with marzipan an almond sugar paste, they kept them for Easter.

At Christmas they made the fruit cake with spices to represent what the wise men brought as gifts!

 

Christmas cakes normally made in November in a airtight tub kept upside down and fed alcohol. I have a few friends like that…

 Until Christmas then it’s time to decorate it with the delicious marzipan. My friend is making us a Christmas cake this year. I asked her to do so and said I will pay her for the ingredients as it’s expensive to buy everything. I so wish my Mum in law was alive still, for lots of reasons, but her cakes were so good.

 

 Oh, you are not going to believe this? We have a Christmas mouse. Every year we seem to get a mouse now. Thank God, it’s in the loft, but still, it’s too close for comfort. So, tonight Hub and our boy are going to set up a trap, Boy Wonder and I are animal lovers too as well as vegetarians. I just can’t stand mice, rats and wasps. So now to find a shoe box. You may remember the last time we had a mouse. You cut a hole in the side of a shoe box and lift the lid off, place the trap inside with some chocolate or cheese, put the lid back on and the mouse goes in the hole, snap, and you don’t have to look at the poor creature before putting it in the bin outside, OK, it’s an expensive way as the reusable traps can’t be used again as we really don’t want to handle the poor thing, so with the box it’s nice and concealed. I just pray I don’t hear the snap sound. Oh, my it’s horrid. Why do they keep coming? And moreover, how are they getting in? I’m paranoid about keeping doors closed in winter but the loft?

 

And tonight, we are putting another outdoor Christmas decoration up. It’s an angel. She lights up and hangs on the wall in our garden.

 

Boy Wonder has just shown me what he has his Dad for Christmas, he’s spoiling him, mind you, Hub spoils BW too. I can’t wait to tell you what we have bought him. I will do when Santa has delivered everything I have asked him to get. We never over spend beyond our means, for our Son, but what we get him is lovely. He isn’t a brat though, I know of a friend who’s grown up child always tells their parents that they wanted better and more… Personally, I just don’t know how two lovely people have ended up with such a child, but it’s sad as the kid will never be happy.

 

How to make your house smell lovely over Christmas in fact you can do this all year round.

 My lovely Blogget and friend Kelly got me thinking today, she has made playdough out of beautiful fragrances like Sinnamon and orange. Then with her children made ornaments. So, what else can we do to make our house smell lovely?

Simmer a pan of water with herbs in summer, you can use lavender and mint, or at Christmas time, cloves, oranges spices and Sinnamon

I buy the oil that you put in an oil burner I get the wax burners too the ones that smell of gingerbread. Talking of gingerbread, as we in the UK have had our ginger snapped up, as in Prince Harry’s engagement, I am obsessed by ginger… Not as in the hair colour but the smell, the word even for some reason always makes me think of Christmas. As I love gingerbread houses, biscuits and the real actual gingerbread man. I love the story

A little old lady and a little old man lived in a tiny quaint cottage near a river. One day the lady decided to bake a gingerbread man as they were both hungry.

 

She made a large batch of gingerbread dough then rolled it flat and cut it in the shape of a gingerbread man.  She gave it raisins for eyes, a Sinnamon drop for his mouth and chocolate chips for buttons.

 

When the gingerbread man was ready, the old lady opened the oven door and before she could do anything, the little man inside of her oven ran out through the kitchen and out of the door of the little cottage shouting don’t eat me. The old lady ran after him. The gingerbread man shouted “Run run as fast as you can. You can’t catch me, I’m the gingerbread man!”” the little gingerbread man ran through the garden passing the old man. The old man shouted for the gingerbread man to stop saying I want to eat you.

 

The gingerbread man shouted. “I ran away from an old woman and I can run away from you too. Run run as fast as you can. You can’t catch me I’m the gingerbread man.””

 

Through the yard the gingerbread man passed a pig. The pig shouted. “Stop I want to eat you!”

“I’ve ran away from a little old woman and a old man and now I will run from you as I can run as fast as you can but you can’t catch me, I’m a gingerbread man.””

 

The pig chased the gingerbread man followed by the little old man and the little old woman ran as fast as they could but the gingerbread man was too fast for them.

 

He passed a cow who mood stop but the cow couldn’t catch the gingerbread man and then the gingerbread man passed a horse in the field who chased the gingerbread man followed by the cow, the pig and the little old woman and the old man.

  Then the gingerbread man came to the river and didn’t know how to swim. There was a sly fox who invited the gingerbread man to jump on his tail and he would swim across the river with him.

The gingerbread man did that and half way across the fox said to the gingerbread man. You are too heavy for my tail. Please can you jump onto my nose. The gingerbread man did so, being watched by the horse, the cow and the pig as well as the little old woman and man.

The fox opened his mouth and ate the gingerbread man.

The end…

 

Why couldn’t the gingerbread man just jump onto his back? I guess the story is not to trust anyone and, learn to swim? Haha.

 

 On that note, it’s snowing heavy outside our window. As in it’s laying. The Little Fella wasn’t impressed as for Waggatail, it’s like whatever. Seen this stuff before.

 

I checked the weather in Canada and it’s colder here than it is there.

Why did I check the weather there? Haha. I dream to live there one day. Or, Italy… Just saying!!

Stay warm and safe and next time you are baking gingerbread men, lock all your doors or, be prepared to run.

 

 

Wednesday 29 November 2017

CHRISTMAS EVERY DAY BY FIONA CUMMINGS

 

“Wouldn’t it be lovely if it could be Christmas every day?””

 Well to some no, as it’s the loneliest day of their year, but if Christmas was all about giving, sharing, caring and reaching out to those who needed us, and others held their hand out to us too, wouldn’t life be wonderful?

 

If Christmas is about peace, and we had peace every day, wouldn’t that be amazing?

 

If Christmas filled us with a warm feeling of belonging and we are shown love and really feel it, I mean, just get it, love so strong it fills our hearts so that thing that beats to keep us alive is fed with only goodness, wouldn’t that be the most magnificent way to wake up each morning and go to bed on every night?

 

Or, is that not how you view Christmas? Whether you are religious or not, or you celebrate Christmas don’t we all, need the above occurrences in our lives? So, why can’t we have them, every day like that. Full of love help selflessness, kindness beyond anything we have even witnessed before?

 

Because we are humans and sadly we have lost our way? Because we think, why should we be like that, no one else is! Because we can’t be bothered to take five minutes out per day to think of someone else and take action on it? Because we are fine, so why care about anyone else? After all, they never bother with me?

 

Think out of the box, not everyone sees life like we do, but everyone surely needs some sort of love kindness thought and care in their life at some point, whether or not we have required that yet on our path of life, but one day we will. And do we want to think when that day comes, no one will be there? Or, someone will be there, as we were there, to help them, when they needed it.

 

Christmas is a new start. A new beginning. The birth of, whether you believe in the religious aspect of Christmas or not, let us do mankind a deed of goodwill. Start off small and end up tall. Just like that Christmas tree growing up to the sky/heavens.

Wouldn’t it be a lovely idea to have an advent calendar each window we open every day leading up to the 25th of December, was a gift of kindness? Whether it be a phone call to someone you haven’t spoken to for a while, a knock on a neighbour’s door with a box of biscuits or a home-made cake, a donation to your local charity, to ask someone who can’t get out of their house on their own if they need to go somewhere? Or why not make something special for that person you love. A gift made by you, from you. Volunteer yourself for a few hours per week? Even just smile at someone who has the gift of sight or say hello to someone who can’t see you. When people say hello to me as I pass them, you have no idea how much that means to me. To be acknowledged. To feel like I belong, I mean something!

 

Christmas can be all about money, but it doesn’t have to be. Words we say to each other, would we want those words said to us? If not, then keep them to ourselves.

 

Wouldn’t it be lovely if it could be Christmas every day?

© Fiona Cummings

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tuesday 28 November 2017

CHOCOLATE@Poetry BY Fiona Cummings


Good morning Bloggets. I hope I find you well? I have been up far too early again the birds were still in their slumber. The ice was thick on the ground and the trees were shivering. It’s that time of year again when I wonder if I should attempt one of my children’s chocolate poems I know that my friend and our Blogget Mary enjoys them and she well, let’s say is a very mature child in her seventies. Smile.

 

Firstly, I may refresh our memories and publish my first chocolate poem I wrote. I think this is my favourite too. I have written a series of them and each one tells a new story from each perspective from a different character who works at the magical factory!

 

(Requirements are as follows. Block out the world we live in and allow your imagination to run free oh, and take a comfortable seat)

 


By Fiona Cummings

 

Oh, the smell from the factory

Brings back a memory

Of my Mums baking days

Where the kitchen was in a haze

Of chocolate cakes

With the wooden spoon

On the table in the corner of the room

in the dish looking so yummy

just begging to find its way to my tummy

so today I put on my shoes

and took a walk to see

a tiny elf waving at me

Hay who are you

I bent down beside him

He said HI, I’m Jim

and pleased to meet with you

 I told him I was Fee

He winked at me

His funny little face

With his turned-up nose

His pink little hands

Holding a beautiful rose

This is for you

As he jumped on my shoe

Stretched right up

He was the height of a buttercup

As I kept kneeling down

On the cold stone ground

Looking around

Seeing nothing but clouds of brown

I couldn’t believe it

The rose smelt of chocolate

I took it in my fingertips

He told me to hold it to my lips

It was edible

I asked him was it a vegetable

He looked in shock

And said it was carved from a chocolate block

He was a funny little fella

Told me he had a girlfriend but I was not to tell her

Why ever not I said with a beam

Oh, he told me, she had eyes so green

Jealous? I asked him

Oh yes indeed

Did she work at the factory

Yes, he said to me

And today is a special day

I’m asking her to marry me

Oh, was that who the rose was for

He said yes but he had more

He had the cutest dimples

And strawberry curls

His trousers were patterns of spots and swirls

His shoes were pointy and heels so high

He wore a yellow dickey bow tie

He asked me if I had ever met his best pal

 Who was the brother of his girlfriend Val

I said oh no

And told him he was the very first elf I had ever met

He then took out a walking stick the size of a candy cigarette

And started to head to the back of the factory

Come on he beckoned

Follow me

Oh, was this going to be the end of the chocolate mystery

There was a tiny house

With a garden made from cornflakes

Sat on a toadstool

Was an elf called Jake

There he is that is my mate

Then I was handed a white chocolate plate

Come on, sit down

Well, the mushroom was so flat to the ground

I just knelt beside the two little creatures

I looked at Jake with his buttoned features

He had cherry lips and cheeks like peaches

He shouted towards the house

Just then running across the path was a sugared mouse

The little door opened

A round cheerful face started speaking

I have not got a clue what she said but I think a nice greeting

Then there was an almighty fuss

Just then the horn went on the wagonwheel bus

Quick get inside the house

What? I thought,

It was the size for a mouse

 Then the most amazing thing happened

As I approached the door

I felt myself being drawn to the floor

I became the height I was when I was four

But it didn’t scare me

As I was welcomed into the chocolate family

Jim told me

Not to be seen

Or he will be given the treatment

By the evil queen

Oh, my word what is that

She dips you in a bowl of cream

Then feeds you to the factory cat

You see, he continued

We are not allowed to mix with folks like you

Then I asked “why did you?

He said you are not like your people

You are like us

You won’t hurt us lot

Or chase us away

Then I listened to what he had to say

Our factory is running by the king and queen

We do our work and keep it clean

We are given our houses on   this village green

On one condition we are never seen

Those who have been

Are taken away

Never to return

Not yet to this day

Where do they go? I asked feeling low

A place so cold where there is forever snow

This is what we are told anyway

Then the round rosy lady

Came to me

Gave me a necklace made from shells

She then muttered some words

Jim explained what she had said to me

As it was a language I had never heard

He said the shells were collected by the milky seabird

How absurd

What on earth was that

Oh, we have pets of a giraffe, bird and a cat

At that point I began to laugh

Why a giraffe

We are so small

And he is so tall

This can be handy

To our chocolate family

Then the door opened and in walked a tired looking young thing

Oh, he was so excited my new friend Jim

He knelt on one knee and produced a ring

Please darling Val, will you marry me

As she smiled teeth so white

And hair so wild

 She said yes, I will

Oh, what a thrill

To witness such love

Then chocolate cups were filled with champagne

This was amazing

 Totally insane

Then Jake took out an old looking violin

And started to play a tune

For Val and Jim

The round rosy lady took my hand

Muttered some words that I could understand

She wanted me to dance with her

I did on a rug of pretend fur

 Bubble gum balloons were flying around

The most wonderful music

A beautiful sound

What a day

I didn’t want to come away

But then my alarm went off and I had to wake for the day

Was it a dream

Absolutely no way

Oh, I can’t wait to go back one day

 

© Fiona Cummings

 

 

Monday 27 November 2017

MY CHRISTMAS DIARY (A BEAR BEHIND) BY FIONA CUMMINGS


Well thank you for your comments from my blog yesterday my first Christmas Diary of this year… I hope we all had a laugh but not as funny as my dear friend and one of our Bloggets who was saying today that they have an inflatable Santa clause and every year she puts it in her front garden but her grown up kids have told her that he looks a bit of a pervert with a smile on his face, so this year she decided not to put him out and to her horror, she went to her garden to see her Husband had done the deed this year and erected this fella… Along next to an inflatable bear. Well the wind had brought the bear down and there the Santa was, with a big smile as the bear bopped up and down against the Santa’s crotch.

Oh my, she has the best sense of humour her and I have shared some laughs but this one takes the first prize. I guess the story should be  titled

(A bear behind)

 

In your country do you have Christmas cakes? Oh, we do and I love them but it’s so difficult to buy one from our shops that are any good. Even M & S, I paid £25 for one a few years ago and it was the worst cake I have ever had. Well Christmas cake. Believe me I have tried every shop but to me, the best one is Tesco.  And I think I paid £10 for it last year.

 

So, what is in a Christmas cake?

Mixed dried fruit, cherry’s, currants, cranberries, sultanas and raisins.

 You can put orange peal in or the juice from an orange and lemon.

150ml of brandy, Sherry, whisky or rum and keep some for feeding as the days go by. Whilst you are waiting for the cake to mature.

250g butter, 200 light brown sugar, 175g plain flour, 100g almond 1 tsb baking powder, 2 tsp mixed spice, 2 tsp mixed spice,1 tsp cinnamon, 100g flaked almond, 4 large eggs, 1 tsp vanilla extract

 This is for a small cake you poke holes in the cake when cooked then pour alcohol in it and feed it with alcohol for a couple of weeks. Then ice it and put a thick layer of marzipan on top and if you want decorate it here is the recipe in full


 

 

Saturday 25 November 2017

MY CHRISTMAS DIARY (TOO FUNNY) BY FIONA CUMMINGS


Good evening Bloggets. I hope you are all well?  I’ve just got in it’s dark out there freezing cold and a cup of hot coffee has gone down a treat. I went with Wagga out a little scared in case it was icy we don’t know if it’s icy until sometimes it’s too late.  Sometimes there is no ice in our drive but once on the path especially when we are walking under shady areas it’s not had any sun so stays Icey all day. I hate that. Though I love the winter. I put on my warm long coat it’s not attractive it’s a proper coat for if it rains and it’s so warm. But it was dark and no one could see me, haha, right? Wagga just loves going out and she wagged her way around to the shops. Hub stayed at home as we are waiting again for parcels for Christmas.

 

This afternoon we put up most of our outside decorations. Our darling neighbours came out and in his lovely Indian accent he told me everything looked very pretty. They are the sweetest neighbours. I wish if we moved we could move them with us.

 

Well the large penguin I bought? My old Bloggets who have been reading my blogs for some Christmases now will know every year I have a story to tell about our decorations. Last year took some beating just for those who haven’t read it, in short, He was my teen at the time, now Boy Wonder as he’s now twenty, came home from work. It was late dark and Icey cold again. There was me with the biggest smile on my face as seriously Hub is the grumpiest person when we are putting outdoor stuff out, though this year he has been OK. So far… More later on that… anyway, as our Son pulled in the drive, we just heard him say.

“Oh guys, oh, my God, oh, no’oo’oo’oo!!! You can’t? “We just said, we can and we have.

 

As Hub was on the ground with an inflatable nut cracker towering above him, trying to stuff it with a large empty milk bottle filled now with water, let’s just say it looked, well, inappropriate…

Whilst our boy was cringing with embarrassment, at the same time he was taking photographs I just imagined the scene. The nut cracker had a big cheesy smile on his face with a moustache painted on his face… And Hub shoving a large bottle up his derriere!

The nutcrackers bottom, not Hubs…

Well to on lookers, the nutcracker looked as if he was happy…

 

One of the young lads went by when we came in the house I was at the window putting our lights on our indoor tree and all I heard was a laughter coming from outside. When I went out to look, the moustache wearing guy was on his back looking as if he had a sherry too many.

 

Well this year we have a Santa climbing up a rope ladder and he looks as if he has had too much of life and had to end it all… He’s just hanging there. Swinging in the wind… but, his hat keeps coming off and obviously it’s not meant to so you should see his head? Hahahahahahhahaha.

 Well, how can I describe it? Tacky? Yep, that’s what it is. Oh, but it gets better… My Son and I went out to buy a large decoration and he told me there were some great penguins. So, I bought one in its box. Brought it home and Hub and I fixed it together today… I kept saying as Hub was dealing with things on the ground level, (No bottle in sight this year.)

“Gosh, it’s beak is a bit on the long side?”” Hub asked what did I mean? I said, well it’s huge and floppy just hanging there… As we positioned it with long beak facing the front of the garden, I then realised that he had in fact two beaks?

Surely not, penguins don’t have two beaks… hahahaha. Nope, well this is BW’s fault as our penguin let’s say, isn’t a penguin… I am guessing he’s a snowman. As he has a scarf and a hat. No beak in sight. So, what I thought was a beak, in fact is his arms.

I think? I’m slightly worried.

Boy Wonder isn’t home for hours.

 

 We put up our bells that light up, hopefully this year we haven’t got the dongs dingging upside down like we did a couple of years ago…

 

We try. Let’s see what Boy  Wonder thinks when he comes home. Goodness knows what the heckers we have done out there but we laughed and that is what life should involve, plenty of laughter… I have a rounded shrub at the side of my house with red lights in and a red wire going around the trunk of my apple tree that lights up in the same colour.

  Our neighbours have said before, it’s very strange that two blind people do so many lights… I simply love it.

 

Friday 24 November 2017

SURPRISED BY HIS LOVE

A gift of love to someone who would love this?

Mary Ellen Wright lives with her husband Mike in Northern California. After fifty-three years of marriage, three children and six grandchildren, they’ve braved the storms, are still upright, praising God, and loving each other. She is a passionate and vulnerable writer and teacher. Mary Ellen started creating and teaching Adult Bible Studies when she was twenty. Her teaching and prophetic insights on the Biblical truth bring God’s word and His heart to light. She also has a passion for God’s Biblical feasts and the Hebrew language and often interjects deep treasures into her teaching. All of these pursuits are blessing many people internationally through speaking engagements, her blog, and YouTube videos. Her YouTube channel is: Mary Ellen Wright. She’s been journaling her quiet pre-dawn time with God for forty years and loves to inject His insights into her writing and speaking. Mary Ellen can be found most days in her office studying and preparing teachings. You can find many of them at her website: http://maryellenwrites.com. Her husband, Mike, is usually in the garden or working with his ham radio. He calls her, MaryEllen.com and she calls him, Sweetie. Together they are full of wisdom and love. They are a joy to be around.

 

That was from Amazon but from me, I know if you have an interest in how some people view religion, this book is perfect for you. It’s like nothing I have read before it’s so personal an yet has the magic to touch everyone’s heart. This lady is a gift to us all. A warm sweet soul some would say an earth angel. I’m glad that this lovely lady is in my life. If you would like to give a gift for Christmas or just to tell someone you love them or perhaps to share knowledge that God is looking out for them, then please at least take a look at this link.

 

I read the reviews and from a twelve-year-old girl who couldn’t put the book down to people saying they heard God speaking to them through Mary’s words to others saying it’s a fantastic read where Mary opens her life to us all through troubles in her marriage Motherhood and more.


 

 


 

Wednesday 22 November 2017

A JUMBLE OF QUOTES BY FIONA CUMMINGS


I love quotes and if we can live by the best of them then it can’t be bad, right? Here are some of my favourite quotes mixed in with some of my very own. A jumble of quotes.

 

You never lose a dream.   It just incubates as a hobby. Find something you love then find a way to give it to others. If you want something you have never had, you must do something to get it and don’t sit around waiting for it to appear in front of you. Sometimes reaching for the what seems impossible, can be an impossible thought. Try to stop thinking about it and reach out see if it can be made possible as just thinking about it, you won’t ever get what you want. Some people want it to happen, some wish it to happen others make it happen. If life gets tough, remember aeroplanes take off against the wind

 

A good leader is like being a Shepard. Let the weak and nimble go a head whilst the others follow totally oblivious that they are all being guided from someone in the background.

 

There was a time when you didn’t know what you know today, so don’t condemn those who don’t know what you know, because they too, will know things you don’t know. Sometimes you learn from a book, sometimes by talking with people but sometimes you do something that will make you so embarrassed, that you will learn to never do it again. Life’s about learning.

 

World peace must come from inner peace. People may die nations may fall but ideas live on.

 

At the end of life, I believe that you will be judged not on how many degrees you may have, or how much money you have made what wonderful items you may possess, but “I was hungry and you fed me. I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless and you gave me a place to stay. I was alone and you sat by my side. I had no one to talk to and you listened. I needed advice and you gave it to me. I had no love and you loved me. Now I will show you all that love.”” You won’t be judged on how much success you have but how many times you fell down and got back up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THANKSGIVING (A THOUGHT) BY FIONA CUMMINGS


THANKSGIVING

BY FIONA CUMMINGS

 Today is a day of thanksgiving

When we are grateful to those who died to keep us living

When we show we care

By wanting to share

And pray for those we are missing

We hear of families big in numbers

A Father, Mother, sister and Brothers

Hands together peaceful moments helping to disencumber

But spare a moment of your time

A thought for those on their own

Be kind

Pick up the phone

Let them know they are on your mind

That will be their best gift of all time

 

© Fiona Cummings

 

Tuesday 21 November 2017

THE BLACK BRIDGE OF LIFE BY FIONA CUMMINGS


THE BLACK BRIDGE OF LIFE

BY FIONA CUMMINGS

I’m watching you on that bridge

I saw you on the roof

Right on the ridge

I was there when you broke the rule

You’re no fool

Life didn’t give you a book

It was me you asked for help

To tie the knot on that rope

As you slung it over the hook

Though you were never by yourself

I feel you think you’re on the shelf

Left behind by life

Sharpening the blade of the knife

What can I do for you

How can I guide you on your way?

To a brighter day

I don’t want to be one of those people

Who say if only I knew

I read your inky words though few

I understood you

I just don’t know where to go next

I know you’re vext

And I can’t get through to you

Words mean nothing

Even when I say I love you

It’s as if there is a brick wall in between us

And I’m invisible to you

Hidden in the mist

You’re beaten by a fist

With death you have kissed

I need to protect you from yourself

Lock you away

Bring you back out another day

When the sun shines above

And you can feel love

You look back and wonder

Who that very sad person was

It’s all been a blunder

And to all those out there

You may feel like there’s no one to care

But there is

You just haven’t met them yet

So, walk away from that shadow

Only swim through waters shallow

One day you will also look back

And daylight will replace your forever nights of black

 

© Fiona Cummings

 

Monday 20 November 2017

MEANING OF THANKSGIVING BY FIONA CUMMINGS


Most of my friends on Facebook are from America, and almost 80 thousand views of my blog page are from people from America. An yet I know nothing about Thanksgiving. Shameful. So, I decided to do some research and this is what I learned.

 

Thanksgiving is celebrated on the forth Thursday of every November.

Thanksgiving has been celebrated on and off since 1789

Since 1863, it’s been celebrated as a holiday.

 

American tradition is to eat a feast of turkey sometimes roasted and stuffed and sometimes deep fried. In 2015, 45 million turkeys were consumed on Thanksgiving Day.

(Not sure the turkeys would have been very thankful…)

 

1.05 billion has been spent in 2016 on the festive poultry.

Various vegetables like sweet potatoes sprouts and sweetcorn as well as pumpkin pie, is also eaten on Thanksgiving Day. What is pumpkin pie? I will put a link at the bottom of this blog.

 

Another favourite is green bean casserole. This was introduced in 1955 by the native Americans. Gosh, what is green bean casserole?

1 can of condensed cream of mushroom soup

2 cups of milk

1 teaspoon of soy sauce

Black pepper

Four cups of cooked cut green beans

1 and three quarter of cups of French onions

Stir everything in a casserole dish

Bake in oven  on 350 °F for 25 minutes until creamy and hot.

 

I would guess you cover it or it will go crispy, personally I would cook it for 25 minutes with the lid on then remove it for five minutes. I would guess you could add cheese towards the end and I am sure I read you can add bacon too?

I’m sure there are more sophisticated recipies out there, but that is roughly what I think is greenbean casserole, at least that is what it says it is on the internet. Haha.

 

Americans eat more food on Thanksgiving Day than any other day of the year.

 

It’s traditional to say Grace before the thanksgiving meal. I think this is really lovely. A time for reflection. I wish we had that in England.

 

It’s written that around the table each person has to say why they are grateful that year for something good in their lives. Again, wow, that is such a lovely thing to do. We take so much for granted in general. It would be lovely to start off with your children such a custom if I were to do this with my twenty year old Son now, he would think I had gone mad, sadly…

 

 In fairness my Son always says thank you for the meals he eats. Or what I cook for him. And I do try to see positives in his young negative life that can take over him sometimes. Then he realises he’s doing fine and has it good.

 

In New York they have the worlds largest parade too, to me this sounds rather spectacular but too modern for me.

 

For my American Bloggets, is Christmas really like we see on our movies? Oh, my idea of Christmas in America is so romantic. A boy takes his girlfriend to an outdoor ice rink were there is a huge lit up Christmas tree in the middle. People warm themselves with hot chocolate. They wear lovely hats and colourful coats. They always look healthy a glow I guess from the cold and fresh air? The Daddy brings home a freshly cut Christmas tree under one arm and a rocking horse he has been making in his workshop under the other arm. They then toast marshmallows on an open fire. Hahaha. How close is that to your Christmas? Oh, that is my dream of a Christmas. I guess the rocking horse will have to be for my Grandchildren now. and somehow, I can’t see Hub creating it… Though he would be able to carry it in at least?

 

Gosh, talking of Grandchildren, looking into the future, I wonder if I will be blessed with them? As we only have one child, we may be lucky to have one or two… I just can’t see that at the moment, I’m not old enough right?

 

So, whilst my American and other countries who celebrate Thanksgiving spend the next few days preparing that special day, I would like to wish you all a happy day and wonderful year to follow.