After reading an email from a dear Blogget, he asked me to
write about a subject in relation with feeling ignored and as if invisible.
When words you say and write really mean nothing to people. When you comment on
social network and your family totally react as if you don’t exist. You comment
on their status for example and though you have asked a direct question, they
never answer, but, they answer others. I’m sure it’s happened to us all at some
point in our lives, he isn’t alone and, Dear Blogget from Canada, I didn’t only
read your words in your email, but I’m now writing a blog on the subject.
Sometimes we are so irrelevant and we feel so very alone.
But worse than alone, worthless. And, how dare those people make us feel that
way? My first bit of advice would be to drop those people like a hot potato,
get them out of your life. Stop hanging around those who make you sad. Even if
you feel more alone, it won’t last because those others are affecting your
confidents so much bringing you down, your self-esteem is rock bottom. Spend
time with yourself for a while and your bodies resistance hopefully will start
to help you in your recovery. And, it is a recovery as you have been badly hurt
damaged by others reactions.
After a while, you will, feel better. Then time to only except
good people in your world. They are out there and you will find them, or, they
will find you! You may end up with less people in your lives, but, they will be
quality and moreover, friends. Those who you may have now, are not friends,
and, Mr. Canada, you say they are your family, well, shame they haven’t treat
you like that before now.
If you have two roads to walk down, one has a threatening
gang waiting for you at the bottom, the other is full of trees flowers and
happy people who smile at you, both roads lead to the same place, which road
would you travel down?
What kind of family are they if they can’t even be bothered
to give you one minute of their time to acknowledge you. It’s slightly
different if you love that family member with all your heart, but do you? If
so, then keep fighting for them but tell them, explain how their actions effect
you, how they, make you feel. If that makes no difference, then step back, let
them know you are there, but sadly their happiness is your misery.
To Mr. Canada, please email me again and let me know how you
are, because I truly care.
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