Good day Bloggets. The sun is so bright today, the heat from
it finds itself wresting on the inside of my windowsill. Though outside of my
window, the bitter blasting booming wind continues to tear through the clouds
and bend the bare trees allowing puddles of melted snow to dress in a coat of
ice!
Now, today is Monday, and if you are like me, waiting for
some news, needing to chill, then we need to remember a few important factors.
Firstly, we don’t measure life in minutes and hours, we measure life in
memories and dates! We have 24 hours in our day, but we don’t need to do
everything in one day. Most things we panic about, will still be there the next
day. It took me until seven years ago, to discover that. Make your own rules
for your own life. Stop letting others narrate or dictate your every move. Define
what kind of life you will want to reflect upon when you are at the end of your
life.
Every time you say yes, I will do that fun thing next week,
or do that course next year, or apply for that job in a couple of years, if the
moment the thought comes to you, then do it. Procrastination is my middle name.
So, if you share my name I’m with you, I know how you feel, but that feeling
isn’t positive, is it? Putting off jobs especially errands for others who don’t
appreciate what we do, can wait, but doing what we need to do for our own
personal development is good!
Dump those in your lives who make you feel
sad, cry depressed. Hang out with those who enjoy living, they are the professionals.
If you can’t hang out with people like that, then really you are better off on
your own, your own misery is yours to change but other people’s hell will drag
you down and you will find out that it gets harder to climb out of that deep
dark den!
Something I read over the weekend is, pain and anger steals
a lot so get rid of it. Hmm, easier said than done, right, where to put it? How
to get rid of it? I guess every time we have a thought from our past, start to
think of something good in our lives if there is nothing good that comes to
mind, then try to think about what we would like in our life plan, then work
out how we can get it/them.
Our yesterdays don’t determine our tomorrows. So, don’t let
our tomorrows be ruled by our past.
© Fiona Cummings
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