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Tuesday, 22 July 2014

DAYS OF MY LIFE


Yesterday we had three views from Saint Maarten. First time for you so welcome. A short blog today then I must dash on with whatever I need to do. A funny night last night, in fact yesterday. My Son got up early, this is not like him. Then he went fishing with a good friend of his. He had four lakes to choose from and found a broken old boat that sank when they stood in it. If ever there is danger my boy will find it. Typical lad. He loved his day and the sun Shon for him all day. Thank God he didn’t bring his poor catch home, gone are those days when he used to do that. Oh God it was evil. I mean, you just don’t need to do that now days? I never understood how as a pescitarian, he could do such a thing, OK, so he ate fish, but he primarily was a vegetarian so to kill something? I mean, it’s not the cave man days? So he hooked them, gave them a very sore lip and put them back. He said they were huge. Hmm. And should be left alone to swim in the lake I say. He came in, had his second shower of the day and went out to the gym. Not sure why he needed a shower for the gym? Came in, ate dinner with us, went back for another shower and went out to play football. At nine o clock at night?  OK, there are floodlights. But till when? I asked him to be in for eleven. A reasonable request don’t you think considering Hub had to be up for work five hours after then? Eleven came, no teen. I text him. He told me he was at his friends. Then by one this morning, I was so anxious he would come in and wake Hub up. Nothing, all I heard was crazy people going back and forward on our quiet avenue well, normally, quiet on mopeds screaming like lunatics. This went on for two hours. And I think there was a motorbike involved too. Oh my insides were shaking. I felt sick. They kept stopping at our row of houses. I was sure teen was with them as he keeps saying he wants a moped. So I text him. He wrote straight back saying he wasn’t. Well he couldn’t do that if he was being driven like a suicide passenger would he?

 

I put on my earphones and blocked the world out of my head. This made me sleepy and I was OK. Now then, Hubs alarm went off at 4.20am. Teen’s bedroom door was closed. And open before I went to bed. Thank God he was OK? But how on earth did he get back without making a sound? He must have come back when I was listening to music? Though be it for just an hour. I have been in today to see him, at eleven. He’s like the living dead.  Haha. I’m not surprised after a full day on the lakes, gym and football and whatever came after that? But good to see him having fun at last.

 

I have so much house work to do and I really don’t want to do it. God I hate it. I wish I could just pay someone to do it. Hmm. actually, do I? No, as this is the only thing I do in my boys eyes so if I didn’t even do that, what good would I be? My house really needs a good day of cleaning. When you can’t see, you do one of two things, you clean overboard so no one can say our houses are dirty because we can’t see, or we say we can’t see it stuff it. And that has been my mentality of late. I’m on these new tablets from the doctors and they are making me feel so tired and dizzy. They were to release the fluid in my eye? Hmm. Well, it’s not my eye where the fluid has been released.

 

They make me feel so serious too. My friend yesterday asked me why I wrote such dark poetry. Well two reasons. Firstly because I think I write so much better when my poems are dark and two that is how I feel most of the time and three my dark poems have been read the most. Finally four, because as I said to him, when I write a poem I in my head am doing art. A picture. Of spikes, twists, sharp edges, non-typical flower petals, trees which actually eat you up in their branches. When I write a happy poem, it’s like whatever.

 

For some reason one of the darkest poems I have ever written, “Why and how, has had almost 400 views in a year. Now why? And How? Haha. I really don’t know? Hub says it’s read by people who wish to commit suicide. Charming.

 

Here it is

Why and how

 

By Fiona Cummings

 

 The pain is too much now

 

I can’t take anymore

 

People ask why and how

 

I do not walk out of the door

 

Answer is simple

 

I have lost all I had

 

Lessons of cruelty

 

And treatments so bad

 

My heart has been shredded

 

When I was created

 

I was already broken

 

My teacher has spoken

 

Giving lectures on choking

 

How bony fingers become tighter

 

Heavy breathing gets lighter

 

Closer to the fire

 

On an iron spike

 

Roasting flesh

 

The devil does like

 

Gouged out eyes

 

Eaten by flies

 

Trampled on by studded boots

 

Buried under old roots

 

Forgotten and flung

 

On a map a crumb

 

Life goes on

 

For everyone

 

My soul just watches from a far

 

Perched up high

 

On a shiny star

 

Clouds are my blankets

 

For comfort now

 

So people can’t wonder

 

Why, and how

 

See, imagine that is a painting, there would be reds and orange flames. Loads of spikes and teardrops. I know, it’s awful, I wish I could be all bright and cheerful? I shall write a cheery poem this week, and I bet it doesn’t get more than twenty views in a month? And no more than forty in a year. Why is this?

 

Another day of sunshine here in the UK. This would be lovely if I could sit out in the garden with my Hub and Son, but one is far away on a course and the other is still in bed and it must be mid-day by now?

 

This weekend is my friend from Russia birthday. She is off to a castle with her family. My other friend also has her birthday and she is having one of our famous street parties. It’s my step daughter’s birthday this week too. So I guess a lot of candles?

 

OK, now time to work. I have paperwork to do too. I hate that as you all know. I hope my Son will help just a little bit? Just to write the envelope out, as I normally do, but this is an important letter and if my pen doesn’t work or for some reason I go wrong somewhere? So let’s hope he’s going to give his precious time today before heading out for the day and night again? Oh to be young? I tell you, I would want the young body and health, but not the life. As specially now days and for sure not my youth either. What age would I like to be again?

 

Hmm. Well. Let’s see, you know I don’t have a year or a month. I have odd days scattered around. Like when I had my 13th birthday and met my hero of the time a guy called Andy Craig. He was a kid’s presenter I was for sure in love with. My 13th was a great day. I have written about it before. My Mum and Dad were invited to lunch in a rather fine restaurant/hotel near where we used to live. We went with the news reporters of course. I was given the most amazing meal of my life and then whisked off to the studios. A live interview with my Mum and me and at the end, Andy came on singing happy birthday with flowers and a huge birthday cake, but stuff the cake and flowers; he planted a kiss on my cheek. Oh I went to heaven.

 

 The time in the Datcha with my Russian friends. I loved it there, so normal, so right, so real.

 

Then the day I gave birth to my baby. I held him and he connected with me in a way I never thought was possible. I was not going to be the hard bitch who gave me up before I was even born, I was not going to be the one who would ever leave my Son to wonder who his Mother was. I was there to love him and bring him up the best way I could. I Held him and for a moment, he was me. I broke down, I held this tiny body and for ten minutes, 

 he was me. I was not, that horrible person who coldly rejected me not once but three times in her cold hard life. How could anyone do such a thing?

 

The day I brought him home from the hospital. Oh life was going to be tough but not as tough as I ever imagined. A year later, I woke up blind, my Dad died two weeks later and less than six months after then, my Mum died. Leaving me alone in the world with my baby. My x Husband worked and played a lot so it was us two. This is one of many reasons I have this bond with my Son and this is what people don’t understand.

Time in America with our beloved friends I will never forget and has kept my heart together.

Then the day I made contact with my now Husband. Then the day I met him for the first time after 28 years and the day I married him. These are my days of life.

 

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